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Feb. 10, 2026
The Domme/Dom Show - Turned On With Sue & John Pain, Pleasure, Power, Perceptions, Passion & Profit
It's the Domme (or Dom) show - where we do a deep dive in the dark and mysterious world of BDSM. Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John do a deep dive into everything from misconceptions about what goes on in the dungeon to defining the euphoria known as "sub space." More often than not, the sexiest thing a Dominant does has nothing to do with a whip. You'll discover why giving women the power means your sex life skyrockets and why female lead sex is sooo much hotter, and will make men want more. We also discuss what you need to do if you want to quit your shit job and pursue a career as a professional dominant! And, for our swinger friends, we answer a listener question about where to meet other swingers. This is a very hot conversation! We're glad you're getting Turned On with us. Now... Get... On... Your... Knees. Our thanks to Club M4 Toronto - connect with them through our website at www.turnedonpodcast.com
Feb. 3, 2026
Taboos - The Sex You Want When No One Is Watching
Oooh this is an especially spicy conversation today! Sex With Sue's Sue McGarvie and John talk about Taboos, and the sex you really want when no one is watching. What do we mean by that? The kinks we're too nervous to admit to anyone that we have. The things we secretly watch on porn sites. Seeking time with professional dominants and sex workers. Also this week, we are overloaded with kinky confessions from you, our listener! Our kinky confessional is your safe, anonymous space, to reveal those things you secretly desire or have pursued, but can't tell anyone, but are dying to! We read them here, and post them on our website for all to read! Doesn't it feel good to put it out there, somewhere? Ooooh! You've tickled our Turned On In Box again with questions and comments (thank you) and one person wants to know Sue's thoughts on the word "cuck" being used more and more in everyday conversation. Does that speak to ENM becoming more mainstream? And, where are swingers meeting other s…
Feb. 2, 2026
Exploring The Vagina - Once you've seen one... You've seen one...
We absolutely love when YOU, our listener, determines what is discussed on this podcast! Last week’s episode on the penis was inspired by a request from our audience, and this week, in response to many who wrote to us to ask if we’d talk about her parts as well, we are! This is the “Vag Show” from Turned On With Sue And John. Today Sue will cover everything from setting the record straight about the vagina being a system, not just a hole and about how no two vaginas are the same despite whatever ideas of “the perfect pussy” you get from magazines and other media. We’ll discuss why she likes touch and stillness more than thrusting, why your pelvic floor is not supposed to be tight, and how your vag remembers past sex. Also, we address a question from a listener whose partner wants him to play rough with her labia. He wants to know if that’s ok. (Spoiler, YES IT IS!) And, for our swinger friends, we present the 15 etiquette rules for swinging - plus one more! Our swinger segmen…
Jan. 20, 2026
Penis Size - Does A Little Go A Long Way? Episode 170
(NOTE: John's mic was set incorrectly for video - our apologies) It’s another, in a long list of things, that people really want to talk about, but are too shy to talk about.Penis size. On this episode of Turned On With Sue And John, we’re talking about it! Including, what things actually work to increase length and girth. There are some crazy things on the market and we’ll help you steer clear of some of them. Men deal with a lot of anxiety over the size of their manhood, and Sue is here to tell you that you can relax. In fact, she will reveal that there is actually something that most women remember a LOT more than your size! There are problems with being too big as well, and we’ll address that as it pertains to traditional sex, plus oral and even anal sex. For our friends in the swinger lifestyle, we address the men at the resort who may have a big one, but is that enough to get them on everyone’s wish list? (Spoiler; no. It’s not.) And this week’s conversation also de…
Jan. 13, 2026
Desire. Let's Talk Wants. Episode 169
Thanks for getting Turned On With Sue And John… It’s sex ed for grown ups!Every week we talk about the number one thing that everybody wants to talk about… Which is also the number one thing people feel uncomfortable talking about. SEX! This week’s conversation centres around desire. From desire at a swinger’s club to why 1 in 20 women want to hire an escort. Plus we look at what’s involved for any man wanting to pursue that line of work. Plus - what IS desire? And, what specific things can you do when it fades? Sue has some solutions for you! Bonus conversations this week include getting you caught up on some of the weird things about sex that popped up this week that you should know about, and we discuss your astrological symbol, and what it says about your kinks! Chyrpe, a female-led dating app, analyzed data from nearly one million verified users to see whether zodiac signs aligned with specific sexual interests. We open the Turned On mail bag for listener letters and …
Jan. 6, 2026
Masturbation And Self Pleasure - Your first lover was yourself. And you’ve forgotten them.
At the request of a listener, today's show is all about masturbation. Sue and John discuss how touching ourselves changed during the pandemic, and some new tricks now that, that's in the past. What to do when you're at the nude beach but you get excited... And secrets of the clit! We introduce you to milking machines and what role they play in self pleasure. Plus mutual masturbation - it's hot! And, as a bonus, we reveal this year's list of things people put inside themselves that lead to them having to make a trip to the ER, and we answer a question submitted to us looking for help on how to fulfill a fantasy of going down on her after you've cum inside her. Connect with our Youtube channel, hear past episodes, and more at www.turnedonpodcast.com
Dec. 30, 2025
What You Learned About Sex In 2025
It’s time to get Turned On With Sue & John one last time in 2025! But we’re back next week with our first conversation of 2026! On this episode, one of the top sex educators in the world, Sex With Sue’s, Sue McGarvie, looks back on some of the most important sex lessons you learned in the past 12 months… Things we learned as well! Including the top things we learned from books and sex tools we discovered and really liked! We review new insights into oral sex (drink your water!) and you’ll find out what Sue believes is some of the best sex and intimacy research done this past year. For our swinger friends - We look at Polyfidelity, and for those not in the lifestyle, we’ll bring you up to speed on what that term means. Also, some of the things we, and you, and others, got wrong in 2025 when it comes to sex and relationships, and Sue reveals the one word that kept coming up in sex review after sex review after sex review. Plus - therapy. It’s coaching, and it’s not something to …
Dec. 2, 2025
Sexual Anatomy & Your Sex Bits
These are the question you want answer to, but are too shy to ask! They are the things we talk about on Turned On With Sue And John. Yes, we talk about SEX! This week, Sue ("Sex With Sue") guides us on a wildly entertaining but informative conversation about our sex bits - our dicks and our clits! From how his parts and her parts work, to how they're similar and how they're different... Also the importance of having your naughty parts checked on a regular basis. Sexual health is a vital part of your overall health. Have you ever wondered just how drag queens "tuck" their junk? It's all about our anatomy and Sue walks us through how it works. We also do a deep dive into the vagina and explore the various parts and what they do, and how to get maximum pleasure from them! We also talk to a special guest this week, Myq Kaplan, a standup comedian who speaks openly about ethical non monogamy, which you can hear more of on his new Youtube special! More on Myq at https://myqkaplan.com …
Nov. 25, 2025
The Sexiest Things You Can Do In Bed
This week, Sex With Sue dives into the sexiest things you can do in bed! Did you know that you can project sexual energy? You can! And you do! But how to tune into that? We'll give you some tips, of course! Lesbians are a great resource for insight into the hottest things in sex, and we'll find out some of the things that community knows that you may not! We'll also discuss some of the conversations on Reddit about this topic! Sue also lets you in on what angles and positions people agree are actually really, really sexy! For our swinger friends (hi!) what to do when one partner wants to swing but the other is hyperventilating And, as a bonus, Sue talks to 70 year old porn star Maestro Claudio! He's still going strong on screen and his story is fascinating! Plus, a kinky confession from someone being naughty at a football game and lots more! Kisses, kinks, and cuddles... We talk about the things you're often too shy to talk about! Time to get Turned On With Sue & John www.tur…
Nov. 23, 2025
Lessons From Porn - Making You The Star Of Your Own Private Show
Hey! It's Sue And John! This week on Turned On, a conversation about porn... What it gets right, and where it misses the mark. And most importantly what you can learn from it that will make you the star of your own private show! Sexy can look sexy on camera, but it can look very different in reality, and not always in a good way. We offer some insight on how to make sure that you always look and feel hot at home! We also do a deep dive into some of the weirdest aspects of the adult industry, and let you in on how male porn stars last longer and stay hard! Sue shares some recent data that reveals why more women than men are turned on by aggressive sex, and we examine the huge change in the adult industry between Gen X and Gen Z. For the younger generation, the sex business is all business! The things you are too terrified to ask are the things we are all too happy to answer! It’s time to get turned on with Sue and John! Check out our new website with voice notes, hundreds of…
Nov. 4, 2025
The 7 Things You Can Do To Make Sex Better
These are the things you are too terrified to ask and we are all too happy to answer! This week with Sex With Sue’s, Sue McGarvie you’ll get the ultimate cheat sheet for amazing sex skills as she reveals seven things you can to to make sex better! From pharmaceutical solutions to how to be incredibly playful when sexting. And, let’s not forget dirty talk! And no, that doesn’t mean using derogatory terms… We’ll give you a “how to” today! An eye opening conversation about what women expect from you once you’ve hooked up. A simple thank you goes a long way. But what if things didn’t go well? Then what? Sue helps you navigate that as well. Another incredible lesson you’ll learn this week is some secrets on how to read body language. Are they responding to you? How can you tell? How to better your chances that they will respond to you ahead of anyone else in the room! For our swinger friends, we discuss the breakup that nobody talks about - yes, when the swinging ends are you are …
Oct. 30, 2025
Stripper Skeleton Scandal - The Frisky Friday Files Oct 31, 2025
These are the sauciest, sometimes silliest, most seductive, salacious, sensational but true stories from this past week.. Stories spotlighting Sex In The News! It's a bonus podcast from Turned On With Sue And John! This week: A statue, intended to pay respect to nurses, ends up creating controversy when it is unveiled and looks more like Lara Croft. Also, OnlyFans is getting more and more popular, raking in the dough, but that is making it harder (pardon the pun) for new content creators. Today's virgins are proud of their status, a couple's restaurant romp has them wanted by authorities, and the most popular times for me to visit their local service provider. Plus... Dueling Penises! And, of course, it wouldn't be a Frisky Friday without a few Florida stories, and this week we give you THREE, including a stripper skeleton scandal! John And Sue Asked You: What's in your wardrobe that, when you put it on, you feel incredibly sexy? You'll hear some of the answers people gave…
Oct. 28, 2025
The Best Ways To Get Somebody Into Bed - Turned On With Sue & John
It is, more often than not, the goal. Get laid. Welcome to an incredible conversation with Sex With Sue’s, Sue McGarvie, and co-host John, all about the best ways to get somebody into bed! In this episode Sue offers tips on how to up your game! From near pleasure hacks, to hormones to help you be your most seductive self… Even the best apps out there to help you find a lover!Plus, as we record this, Halloween is coming up - so, we review some of the incredible action we witnessed at Sue’s Halloween party on the weekend and we’ll give you some incredible Halloween seduction tricks. Plus - you don’t want to miss Sue’s list of the best costumes to seduce someone! From the tried and true “naughty school girl” to the kitty cat, to the sexy police officer, we’ve got you covered!For our swinger friends - we’ll discuss the hierarchy of hotness. It’s real. But don’t be put off by it! You may very well be exactly the right person to get all the attention despite how you see swing…
Oct. 8, 2025
Sex Tech For Your Boner
You found it! The most fun sex education podcast on the planet - with the legendary Sex With Sue... Sue McGarvie! This week we discuss some very cool new technology that is designed to help your erection! Also, how long does sex actually last (it changes as you age) and, we'll also let you know how that matches up with how long women wish it would go! People are ditching condoms. We have concerns about that, and we offer some details on the female condom, which you may want to consider using instead. For our swinger friends this week, we discuss jealousy. It's inevitable. Also, what does a couple do if they were swingers but one loses interest, but the other does not? What does masturbation reveal about you? We look at the history of self pleasure - we'll also introduce you to a new trend on this very subject that you'll find on TikTok! And, Sue and John also discuss the hierarchy of sex work... From street walkers to happy ending massages to glory holes to pro Dommes! Your qu…
Aug. 12, 2025
A Crash Course In Erotic Hand Techniques
Hey flirty friends! It's Turned On Tuesday!!! The best adult sex education in podcast-land! This week, Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie will discuss: - Skills - the art of the first five minutes - Hands of gold - A crash course in erotic hand techniques - Sooo you’re a swinger. Curated guest lists and run by women - Pillow positioning masterclass - How weight loss drugs maybe helping your libido. - Things that will kill your mojo and your chances of getting more sex. - New research on your "body count." Plus we hear from you with your Kinky Confessions and two questions for Sue this week. The first about dealing with ED when he not focused. The second is about sex with, or without the lights on. Subscribe (free) on Spotify, Apple, Amazon and more or listen online at: www.turnedonpodcast.com
Aug. 1, 2025
Scuba Kink - Summer’s Wettest Trend - The Frisky Friday Files Aug 1, 2025
A collection of our favorite sex stories from this past week... It's The Frisky Friday Files from Turned On With Sue & John! Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and radio host, The Milkman spotlight this summer's wettest trend, Scuba Kink and obsessions with inflatables! Also this week: - The Rise of Erotic Gifting: Lube on the First Date? - Katy Perry & Trudeau (Like father, like son?) AND Pamela Anderson and Liam Neeson (she does have a type, it seems!) - Harry Styles’ New Double-Sided Vibrator - Scent Kinks: The Rise of “Crotch Musk” Colognes - Spank Retreats: Impact Play Enters the Corporate World - Lube Shortage 2025: Slide Into Panic Mode - Foodie Fetish Frenzy: Sploshing Goes Gourmet - US Government Destroying $9.7M in Condoms - “Watersports” ... The Confusion Is a Real Thing - Gym-Goer Hides Naked in Tanning Bed - Florida Man caught on cam having sex with Olaf doll at Target Our sponsors: www.edenfantasys.com Our website: www.turnedonpodcast.com - and be sure to join our new Fa…
July 29, 2025
Hot Husbandry! The Script Is Flipped!
How much would you love to see your man with someone else? It's a growing trend.... And we dive into it on Episode #146 of Turned On With Sue & John! Also this week: - Male birth control pill is coming very, very soon - How big is the clit anyway ? - Vabbing and pheromones - Questions for Sue, from you! Including: Can a vibrator ruin my ability to orgasm? Can you suggest a condom? And... John answers a question from a listener via Fetlife about how he first knew he was kinky. - What dreaming about banging your boss can be telling you - Selective Swinging: Why Some Couples Only Swing with One Person And your kinky confessions! Special thanks to our friends at Classixxx Adult Stores Bells Corners for letting us have a little fun with them this week too!
July 22, 2025
Calculating Your Kink Score - Turned On With Sue & John July 22, 2025
It's Sex With Sue's Turned On With Sue & John - guiding you through the new world of dating, love and romance, direct from our Community College Of Nookie Knowledge! This week - calculating your kink score - 700,000 people spill their bedroom secrets PLUS: - The Cinderella Rule (Why Some Couples Have a Sex Curfew) - Lazy Susan Trick for Surprise Foreplay (This week's Nookie Nugget!) - Swingers; Don’t Blindsidie Your sweetie Over Breakfast - Sex Ed Fails Things We Should’ve Learned in Grade 9 And your questions to Sue! This week: - I Want To Try Anal - What's One Sex Tip Everyone Should Use With A New Lover - I Want To Hear More About Bi-Male Acceptance Our sponsors: www.edenfantasys.com (July sale up to 85% off!) Our trip to Mexico: hhttps://playfulcoconuts.com Our website: www.turnedonpodcast.com
July 15, 2025
Simple Moves That Make You Instantly Better in Bed - Turned On With Sue & John #142
Full podcast available on Spotify, Apple, iHeart, Amazon and more: Turned On With Sue And John It's Sex With Sue's Sue McGarvie - Turned On With Sue & John, your community college of Nookie Knowledge! This week, WHY Sue does this podcast and what she hopes you take away from it each week. Also: - Simple Moves That Make You Instantly Better in Bed - Muff diving... Women to women sex has the lowest orgasm gap. - Your questions answered - including, "We’re Too Tired for Sex—Now What?" / How Do I Suggest Something New Without Offending My Partner? / Tips For Making Condoms More Comfortable - The Nookie Nugget: Royal Pulling – A Pleasure Hack for Men - Gut Feelings: How Your Microbiome Affects Libido - Sooo You’re a Swinger! When One of You Is Curious and the Other Is Cautious - Crazy sex myths we are debunking. Save up to 85 % now with www.edenfantasys.com Our website: www.turnedonpodcast.com
March 26, 2025
Sue's Magic Cream
A listener asks Sue for more information on a 'magic cream' that can help down there... We're Turned On With Sue & John - full show at www.turnedonpodcast.com
March 26, 2025
Millennials prioritize sex as the #1 thing in choosing a partner
The title says it all! Millennials say sex is THE priority when choosing a partner. Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie explains the reasons why on this week's edition of Turned On With Sue & John. www.turnedonpodcast.com
March 26, 2025
The most searched sex questions
When people log onto Google and search for things about sex, just what are they asking? They're actually asking things that seem remarkably simple. Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie reveals what people want to know! Full show at www.turnedonpodcast.com
March 26, 2025
New pheromone scent that actually works
It's Turned On With Sue And John, the podcast is available everywhere and at www.turnedonpodcast.com Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie explains why a new pheromone scent actually works to attract a lover!
March 26, 2025
Kinky Confessions - March 25, 2025
You'll find the Kinky Confessional on our website: www.turnedonpodcast.com - You can confess anything about sex there and be 100% anonymous! This week, a listener goes from dipping her toes into the swinger scene to diving all the way in! A follow up from a listener who is having a lot of fun lately exploring the hotwife culture, and another admits to having had an affair. Should he tell his wife? Sue offers some advice.