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Today you get to find out exactly what it is that her clitoris wishes you knew... And by the end of this episode you WILL know! Including: The clitoris: what science is finally discovering—and what to do with that information. How do you turn her on before touching her clitoris? How should you touch her—and what about oral sex? How do you help her orgasm without chasing it away? Does she want less sex—or better sex? How do you become the lover she can actually guide? SUE’S SASSY SEX SECRET: Three ways to bring the clitoris into intercourse. SO YOU’RE A SWINGER: The awkward morning-after review.’ And... We have two AMAZING questions from listeners this week that are all about this topic. One from a husband wondering how to get her to open up about fantasies, because he really wants to please her... And another from someone in a new relationship looking for ways to help her husband become more comfortable exploring so they can both experience incredible sex together! We're online a…

What happens when one partner keeps reaching, the other keeps retreating, and both end up feeling rejected? And... How do you talk about it? Well today, we do talk about it. Everything from the loneliest six inches in a relationship to when "not tonight" starts to mean "not you." Sue helps you navigate the differences between what different people need to get in the mood. For some it's spontaneous desire, but for others, desire is more responsive. Have you ever felt like every touch is a demand? We talk about it. And we dive into the real reasons WHY desire disappears. We also offer some tips on breaking that rejection "pressure loop." This week, Sue's Sassy Sex Secret is an incredible plan that she calls "the 10 minute maybe." And for our swingers, we get into how being desired in the lifestyle, while hot, it doesn't fix what's happening at home. Plus - don't miss Sue's heart to heart conversation with Charla Hathaway - a self proclaimed "whore since 50" who now, at the age of …

What do you do when you have a hard time getting hard? Or staying hard? Today, we talk about it. Including new treatments, and how commonplace erection medications are on porn sets, and at swinger clubs. In this week's swinger segment we'll get into why some men can't get hard even in that environment, and, as a bonus, we have a conversation about the couple's crush. Our podcast is the sex education you wish you'd been given. Sue and John will offer insight into why porn can impact your dick, and why your boss may be more to blame for not being able to get it up than your partner is. What weakens erections and what men can do to make them harder and more reliable, and why playing with your partner's flaccid penis can be a LOT of fun! For both of you! Questions for Sue: sue@sexwithsue.com Our website: www.turnedonpodcast.com Sue on TikTok: @s3xwithsue.swingdateguru

Hey it's Sue and John - your guides today on how to better your odds of ending up in bed with someone you are attracted to! A 40 minute conversation that covers that space between flirting and spending the night together. We'll reveal where most people either freeze, fumble or accidentally kill the mood. And we offer some tips on how to avoid those pitfalls, and how to lean into your awkwardness as a super power! Think about what song you'd strip to for someone you're trying to seduce, because Sue will teach you and incredible three minute strip tease! You know those people who seem to have game every day and every night? What if YOU knew how to do that? After this conversation, you'll have some things to try! Oh, and guys... Bridgerton. There aren't many places you can go to get better lessons on seduction that Bridgerton. You have your homework! For our swinger friends (hi!), why swingers may be more sexually confident. Swinging isn't always a guaranteed romp. Swingers have le…

Today we bring you inside a BDSM dungeon! It's an enormous space, in a very small community, in small town New Brunswick Canada! We'll introduce you to Mistress Aaliyah and Her husband Chuck, who is also the dungeon master. In just a few short years they turned their lifestyle into a space that attracts people from across Canada, the USA and around the world. From BDSM sessions to swinger events and incredible adult lifestyle parties, Mistress and Chuck will introduce you to this converted warehouse that started as the location for their custom auto shop. If you've ever wondered if you could work as a Pro Domme, Mistress will tell you some of the things you need to know about that line of work. From what you need to get started to what skill sets you need to have. This is an eye opener and a very fun conversation! See the Warehouse for yourself online at www.thewarehousenb [dot] ca Plus... Sue has a conversation with one of our listeners, Copper Delight, who took us up on our in…

There is so much bad sex advice out there. And, sadly, a lot of people hear it, try it and things end up worse than they were. Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie has been a leading expert on this since the early 90s and on today's episode of Turned On With Sue And John, she addresses a lot of the bad advice, and sets the record straight on what DOES work! Including new sex ideas to hear things up and the wet and wild upgrade using fruits! And she'll introduce you to the "gum job" a candy that actually helps you give a better blow job! We're also going to send Hollywood to the naughty corner because a lot of what it has taught us is just... Well... Hollywood fiction. For our swinger friends - a new mega-swinger-centre is being built - we'll tell you where and we'll also tell you how to explore it FREE! You're welcome! This week's sex in the news includes a man arrested for stealing and then trying to re-sell boner pills at one of the largest swinger hot spots in the world, and a strongman …

There is so much bad sex advice out there. And, sadly, a lot of people hear it, try it and things end up worse than they were. Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie has been a leading expert on this since the early 90s and on today's episode of Turned On With Sue And John, she addresses a lot of the bad advice, and sets the record straight on what DOES work! Including new sex ideas to hear things up and the wet and wild upgrade using fruits! And she'll introduce you to the "gum job" a candy that actually helps you give a better blow job! We're also going to send Hollywood to the naughty corner because a lot of what it has taught us is just... Well... Hollywood fiction. For our swinger friends - a new mega-swinger-centre is being built - we'll tell you where and we'll also tell you how to explore it FREE! You're welcome! This week's sex in the news includes a man arrested for stealing and then trying to re-sell boner pills at one of the largest swinger hot spots in the world, and a stro…

The flowing hair, the six pack abs, the tall dark and handsome figure who looks like he belongs on the cover of a romance novel... He is not what women really want. We'll even take a huge dick and fat wallet out of the equation. Today, Sex With Sue's Sue McGarvie reveals the things that women REALLY want from a man. We'll dive into "Looksmaxing" and even "dickmaxing" on this episode. Also today, the exit strategy for swingers, because sometimes you've had enough of the lifestyle, need to take a break, or have discovered that it's just not for you anymore. You always hear about how to get IN, but how do you gracefully find your way out? We even get you caught up on sex in the news - including the latest about sex in space, 83 year old Iris is banging a lot of younger men, a new survey looks at what is ruining things in the bedroom for Canadians, and outdated sex laws that are still on the books in the USA right now. And our friends at The Adult Fun Superstore introduce us to the l…

Today’s oral presentation is all about… Oral!We’ll introduce you to Jasmine, who partnered with Sue last weekend for an entire workshop devoted to oral sex! As a working professional, she’ll let you in on all kinds of tips (pardon the pun) and tricks! Sue also discusses some of the biggest oral sex myths on this episode as well as her “sassy sex secret” of the week; the frozen grape trick! This sounds SOOOO fun! For our swinger friends, we get into all the things swinging has taught us, and others in the lifestyle. If you’re new to swinging, these are some of the things you’ll experience as you play more! Some incredible questions from YOU again this week. One listener cannot visualize things in their mind and wants to know if that’s normal. We promise you, it is, and we have some work-arounds for you to try! Another listener is frustrated trying to orgasm, often spending up to an hour with no success. They’d like Sue’s recipe for “scream cream” please. Sue happily shares t…

Perhaps you see more of it because of the algorithm... Especially if you're in the lifestyle already and tend to search a lot of content on ethical non monogamy. But, swinging does seem to be much more common online and in the public discourse than ever. Has it become TOO mainstream? We dive into that today. Also this week, listeners ask if their love of seeing sweaty women at the gym is unusual, loads of questions about grooming in advance of a live seminar Sue is conducting this week about oral sex, and another listener wants to know about swinger burnout. Sue will also let you in on what she'd include in your summer sex festival survival pack, and on her Sassy Sex Secrets it's the $4 Hardware Store / Drug Store toy that you can't pass up! Plus, the gang at the Adult Fun Superstore in Ottawa Canada introduce us to the toy their employees chose as this week's staff pick! Subscribe to Sue's newsletter and hear every episode of Turned On at www.turnedonpodcast.com Fetlife: Turned…

What makes you feel desired? A touch? A text? Holding hands? Today we talk about how to open up to your partner about what YOU need from them in order to feel desired... And sexy! On this episode we offer up some examples of questions you can ask them, or even ask yourself in order to start getting more of what you need in order to feel connected. Sue will also give you 10 Desire Builders; things you can put into practice to develop that closer bond, and we'll discuss the things that men and women want when it comes to desire. They're not always the same, and, some of the things you have been doing to express your desire, may not be things that your partner even recognizes as your love language. On our "So You're A Swinger" segment this week, we'll help you go from chatting to scoring at the next swinger event you attend. PLUS - John shares details of his tour of what he calls "the most perfect, elegant, and fully equipped exclusive lifestyle club" he's ever seen! Indulgence VIP …

Ballmaxing. It was the subject of an article published a few days ago that caught our attention and it's something Sue gets a lot of questions about. For a variety of reasons, people love to experiment with their privates! From injecting saline into the balls, to inserting sounding instruments into the urethra, to weights, to rings, to pills and countless other things that many find make things feel oh-so-much-better. We'll even share some of the things people on Reddit have admitted they're into or have tried. A Barbie arm? Really? Really! For our swingers this week, a talk about bio-hacking to be a player.... And a look at some of the weird things that are bound to happen in the lifestyle. Sue's Sexy Sex Secret this week: the fake exit and other things that will get you smacked or have the O of your life. Online: www.turnedonpodcast.com On Fetlife: @TurnedOnPodcast John on Fetlife: @Megahurts Sue: sue@sexwithsue.com John: turnedonpodcast@gmail.com

It's a hot topic on Reddit right now... How awkward and weird humans are about our sexual desires, kinks, and behaviors around sex. On this episode we get into WHY we're so weird. From how we eroticize, literally, everything from spread sheets to bed sheets, to aliens. We discuss what it is that attracts so many of us to people who many would refer to as "the crazy ones" and our weird sex quirks. For our swinger friends, a conversation about herpes and Sue's Sexy Sex Secret this week introduces you to the KIVIN METHOD. And, we have a VERY fun guest on the show today - Ted Buras - creator of CollabGPS, a creator networking app designed to help content creators find collaborators, plan shoots and manage projects. CollabGPS [dot] com | TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@collabgps | IG: https://www.instagram.com/collabgps | X: https://x.com/collabgps And find us on your preferred podcast platform, on Youtube and on Fetlife @TurnedOnPodcast - our website where you can subscribe to Sue's n…

Today, in a nutshell, we're going to address why most sex feels... Fine... But not amazing. You're going to get amazing tips on how to slow things down, how to connect better, and by the end of this episode you'll have incredible tools to put to use to better understand why your body responds the way it does before, during and after sex, and Sue will even set you up with 14 things you can do to up your pleasure all over. We answer two incredible questions from you, our listener/viewer this week. One person wants to know about post-orgasm clarity, and another is looking for tips on how to manage their sexual energy so that nobody in their dynamic feels short changed. Sue's Sassy Sex Secret this week is a tip she learned from the other "Sex With Sue" Sue Johansen... It's the Pulse & Peanut Butter Trick! For our swinger friends, this week's So You're A Swinger Segment is an absolute eye opener - The laundry list. The things you should discuss after every lifestyle encounter and WHEN …

It's National Superhero Day today and your Superhero Of Sex - Sue McGarvie is here to talk about the sex that feels like a drug. The kind that can turn into a problem. Sue and John discuss what people mean when they say "sex addict" plus compulsive masturbation and the "addictive partner phenomenon." What is is about that person who you can't stop thinking about? Also how early porn use can predict your mental health and, Sue's Sassy Sex Secret of the week: The chapstick / lip gloss trick! We're online at www.turnedonpodcast.com and on Fetlife: TurnedOnPodcast Email Sue at: sue@sexwithsue.com Email John at: funwithmilkman@gmail.com

Bigger, Better… or Just Louder? What actually creates enlarged parts - and what is complete BS! This episode of Turned On With Sue And John is all about size! Including - Can you actually change your body, or just how it performs? The difference between growing and enhancing - including breast size (we'll speak with Demora Avarice - whose chest is so big, there isn't a bra size big enough - and dick size - why erection quality beats size!" On this week's So You’re a Swinger segment - What real world bodies teach you... And the pitfalls of sites like Adult Friend Finder. And, Sue dives into the mail bag this week to answer questions from you about where to go to "try out a sex worker" and another question regarding what to do when your partner is into things that feel... Weird. Find us on Fetlife: TurnedOnPodcast Find us online: www.turnedonpodcast.com And for all things Demora Avarice: DemoraAvarice (dot) com

Your sex drive. It can be a crazy ride. From highs to lows and often, you can be completely distracted. Let's get you back in your lane! In this conversation, Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie gives you 5 Ways to Turn Up the Heat (Without Trying Harder) AND you'll also hear TEN things you can do if your libido has gone MIA. In our So You're A Swinger segment this week - a question who feels that what they see represented online doesn't quite align with the reality they, and other couples seem to experience. Why do real life couples seem to crash and burn? This conversation should not only answer that, but offer you some hope! And there is an incredible new report out that shares close to 250 reasons why people have sex! Think about it. Why do YOU have sex? Would your bestie, if they were sitting next to you, answer the question the same way you just did? Fascinating! Controlled chaos leads to wet panties. You'll find out why when you click PLAY! Be sure to sign up for our Turned On …

Orgasms. What do you do when you just can't get there? It happens! Today's conversation with Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie, and John, is all about the BIG O. And Sue will even share with you her 10 Fixes for Orgasm Roadblocks! We'll also discuss the refractory period and how to come back faster and without any weird supplements. A new segment this week... Sue's Sassy Sex Secret: Do the "3-3-3" if your orgasm is elusive. On this week's So You're A Swinger Segment, (thanks to club M4 in Toronto) - The Single Guy Problem And Survival Guide "Bimbofication" has been in the news - was this your first time hearing that term? We'll define it for you and discuss the appeal to cross dressing for so many men. Plus - we answer several questions submitted by people just like you - people who are tuned in and getting Turned On With Sue And John! Our website: www.turnedonpodcast.com Sue's Newsletter: https://www.turnedonpodcast.com/newsletter/

Welcome to another sex ed lesson that nobody gave you in high school. Sex ed for grown ups with Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and co-host John. Today we talk sperm. And testosterone. And why your body is, frankly, weird. Plus we introduce you to an incredible new app called Moanr™ with its creators, Kevin & Tracy Daly! Moanr™ is the first privacy-first relationship app designed for your total well being. From secure STI verification to tracking libido,fertility and more.. You think you’re in control of your sex life… Meanwhile your body is running a chemical circus with hormones, swimmers, boy bits, girl bits and decisions you didn’t approve. On this episode you'll learn how sperm wars are affecting your sex life and how your body is turning your desire up and down. For your swinger friends (hi!) we look into the rise of soft swapping. If you're in the lifestyle, then you are well aware that it’s happening everywhere! We get to a number of your very hot, kinky confessions this…

Men... We are about to change your life on today's podcast. You're welcome! Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John share the best tips you'll find anywhere on what you need to do in order to generate the response from her that you've been hoping for. It comes down to being engaged, invested and interesting. If she's interested, she'll give you all kinds of signs. And we reveal what to watch and listen for! Plus... We respond to a listener's question about BDSM. They want to know why people fantasize about it, but then panic when opportunities present themselves. Another listener finds themselves very drawn to vintage porn and wants Sue's opinion on why it's so captivating. For our swinger friends (hi!) Sue and John address the "I didn't expect THAT effect." Why 1,000 different people have 1,000 different ideas of what to expect in the lifestyle and what to do so you don't feel overwhelmed. Baby steps my friend. Our swinger segment is thanks to Club M4 in Mississauga Ontario (google …

It's the St. Patrick's Day edition of Turned On With Sue And John... Today is all about getting lucky! Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie offers some of her best tips on what works to get you laid... Beginning with understanding the three little brain hormones that can make that happen! Plus sex, scent and subtle power - chemistry hacks that no one has taught you, until now! We also do a deep dive on Hotwifing after reading a new study that reveals 71/% of couples who have tried it, say that it improved their marriage! We examine some of the reasons why! And because it is St. Patrick's Day as we record this - we look at Ireland's sex history, and find out why redheads may be hornier! Our Naught-E-Mail box was full this week with questions about how an aging swinger can stay in their "banging form." Another person wants information on how to last longer, and John reveals that he sometimes can, but, at other times, can finish too fast. Sue walks us through some of the reasons why! A voice n…

Sue is just back from two weeks in Thailand, where the attitude about sex work is incredibly different from the norm. Today we discuss Fantasy, Money, and the World’s Oldest Transaction! First up - the thing nobody wants to admit about sex work, and why so many are attracted to it. The money conversation is part of today's episode... Including our belief that with world events and changes in employment opportunities, more and more people will be exploring sex as a career option. Sue calls it the "fantasy economy." Plus, the girlfriend experience and why it's so popular, along with stripping and burlesque - and so many other categories of sex work. As always, you, our listener, have filled our in-box with questions, and we are thrilled to answer them! Including someone wanting to know why people admit to affairs even though they may never get caught. Thanks for your Kinky Confessions this week as well... Get on your knees and we'll share them with you. And you can share yours on o…

It's what people are desperate to talk about, but are too shy to talk about. Sex. And we talk about it here, on Turned On With Sue And John! Today, at the request of one of our listeners, we devote over an hour talking about the prostate. And we're joined by Caitlin V, host of HBO's GOOD SEX, and author of Harder, Better, Longer, Stronger: Science, Skills, and Secrets for the Best Sex of Your Life who has lost of insight to offer on the topic! Plus: - WHY YOUR BEST ORGASM ISN’T IN YOUR PENIS - THE MALE G-SPOT MYTH — AND WHAT’S ACTUALLY HAPPENING - ERECTIONS, EJACULATION, AND WHY MEN PANIC - PEGGING ISN’T ABOUT POWER — UNTIL IT IS And, the best and the worst of swingers club and why they work (and fail)... Brought to you by club M4 in Toronto! Caitlin's Book: www.harderbook.com Caitlin on Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@CaitlinV New shows every Tuesday - available on all major podcast platforms, Youtube and at www.turnedonpodcast.com

You are about to get an incredible lesson on seduction! Today, Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John discuss seduction techniques that nobody has ever pulled you aside to teach you. Until right now! On this episode you'll hear seduction truths, and what swingers know about seduction... Often their seduction strategies work, but not always. We'll get into the rejection factor as well. Sue also introduces you to some of the most famous seducers in history! You know that guy who wore the top hat to the party, or who had the craziest Halloween costume? Did you notice that he got hit on by a lot of women? He planned that. He seduced them! Also today; why seduction is restraint. You always want to leave them wanting more. And Sue looks at the different things men and women often do in order to seduce people! Time to get Turned On With Sue And John Online @ www.turnedonpodcast.com