Episodes

How To Turn Her On

The Feeling Of Not Feeling Wanted

Why '25 Minutes, 51 Seconds' Is the Most Lied-About Number in Sex

It's an entire show devoted to the inability to achieve orgasm. Sex With Sue is North America's leading expert on human sexuality and today she and John discuss this issue, which is more common that most probably realize. It not only affects individuals, but can impact your partner as well. We'll explore why sometimes you're able to cum when you're by yourself, but can't always get there when you're with somebody else. Sue has some tricks up her sleeve to help with that too! This week's "Sass...

Getting it up, keeping it up, and what to do when it won't.

(With Consent)

Today we bring you inside a BDSM dungeon! It's an enormous space, in a very small community, in small town New Brunswick Canada! We'll introduce you to Mistress Aaliyah and Her husband Chuck, who is also the dungeon master. In just a few short years they turned their lifestyle into a space that attracts people from across Canada, the USA and around the world. From BDSM sessions to swinger events and incredible adult lifestyle parties, Mistress and Chuck will introduce you to this converted wa...

Meet The Men Who Cater To The Sexual Needs And Desires Of Women

Our 200th Episode

Weird kinks. How did we get here?

Midlife Sex

Sue is back from Swingathon UK with a first hand account of this growing swinger festival, plus details of Naughty N'Awlins which was also a HUGE success! And, we dive into what is NEW in the world of swinging, or ENM or any of the newer "lables" being attached to the lifestyle. Sue's Sassy Sex Secret this week helps you with squirting! Some tricks to encourage more fluid. We also answer the question, "Does non-monogamy drive us or are we just bored?" Sue will get you all caught up with the ...

Why the best lovers understand the dance of giving and receiving as incredibly sexy

What is the best kind of sex? This week on Turned On With Sue and John we’ll help you answer that, including a list of the 10 best kinds, according to therapists around the world. Plus, we’ll discuss some types of sex that you may not believe are good, although, they actually are! Sue’s Sassy Sex Secret this weekdays with Spectatoring is the act of overthinking sex while having sex. And listener questions this week seek Sue’s advice on how to deal with, what they call “a broken clit” and ano...

1... 2... 3... How many sex partners have you had? Don't answer that. Because, the reality is, it doesn't matter. Your sexual history isn't a report card, or a scoreboard. Today Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie and John discuss "The Body Count." Sue's Sassy Sex Secret this week: The "Pulse and Pause" Edging Hack For swingers, a conversation with Bob from Naughty N'awlins plus... Hollywood Gets the Lifestyle Wrong. Again. And in sex in the news: The "wholesome" creator with more than 2,500 partn...

There is so much bad sex advice out there. And, sadly, a lot of people hear it, try it and things end up worse than they were. Sex With Sue's, Sue McGarvie has been a leading expert on this since the early 90s and on today's episode of Turned On With Sue And John, she addresses a lot of the bad advice, and sets the record straight on what DOES work! Including new sex ideas to hear things up and the wet and wild upgrade using fruits! And she'll introduce you to the "gum job" a candy that actual...

What’s lust and why does it feel like a punch in the gut?

The flowing hair, the six pack abs, the tall dark and handsome figure who looks like he belongs on the cover of a romance novel... He is not what women really want. We'll even take a huge dick and fat wallet out of the equation. Today, Sex With Sue's Sue McGarvie reveals the things that women REALLY want from a man. We'll dive into "Looksmaxing" and even "dickmaxing" on this episode. Also today, the exit strategy for swingers, because sometimes you've had enough of the lifestyle, need to take...

Let's Be Head Masters

Perhaps you see more of it because of the algorithm... Especially if you're in the lifestyle already and tend to search a lot of content on ethical non monogamy. But, swinging does seem to be much more common online and in the public discourse than ever. Has it become TOO mainstream? We dive into that today. Also this week, listeners ask if their love of seeing sweaty women at the gym is unusual, loads of questions about grooming in advance of a live seminar Sue is conducting this week about o...

Tips On How To Tell Your Partner What You Need To Feel Sexy

Injections, Pumps, and Pills

Humans Make It So

From Mechanical Sex to Mind-Blowing Connection