Magic Wand Rechargeable: The classic of classics. If you’re new to toys, start here. Powerful, rechargeable, water-resistant and famous for a reason.
BuyShunga Massage Candle: Warm massage oil without the burn. Vanilla, deliciously sensual, and when I’ve asked some of the world’s most famous madams for their secret? Warmed oil. This is the one.
The Suburban Hedonist, by Sue McGarvie: 15 years in the making. The real-world guide to getting into the lifestyle, navigating it and actually doing it well.
Nothing to Hide, by Sue McGarvie: I went exploring clothing-optional and lifestyle resorts around the world so you don’t have to go in blind. It’s under $10. Consider it your very inexpensive field guide.